[August 9, 2020] A former Army Sgt Major sent this to me on Facebook and thought I would share it. All of it is true. Great leader advice!
No. 1. Yelling doesn’t make you skinny. Daily Physical Training (PT) does. If you’re not out there saluting the flag every morning at 6:30, you can automatically assume your Soldiers are not. Soldiers don’t care if you’re in first place. They just want to see you out there. This is a team sport. PT might not be the most important thing you do that day, but it is the most important thing you do every day in the United States Army. The bottom line is, wars are won between 6:30 and 9.
No. 2. Think about what you’re going to say before you say it. I’ve never regretted taking the distinct opportunity to keep my mouth shut. You’re the sergeant major. People are going to listen to you. By all means, if you have something important or something informative to add to the discussion, they say it. But don’t just talk so people can hear you. For goodness sake, you’re embarrassing the rest of us. Sit down and listen. Sometimes you might just learn something.
No. 3. If you find yourself having to remind everyone all of the time that you’re the sergeant major and you’re in charge, you’re probably not. That one’s pretty self-explanatory.
No. 4. You have to work very hard at being more informed and less emotional. Sergeants Major, I’ll put it in simple terms: nobody likes a dumb loudmouth. They don’t. Take the time to do the research. Learn how to be brief. Listen to people and give everyone the time of day. Everyone makes mistakes, even sergeants major, and you will make less of them if you have time to be more informed.
No. 5. If you can’t have fun every day, then you need to go home. You are the morale officer. You don’t have to be everyone’s friend, but you do have to be positive all the time. The sergeant major is the one everyone looks to when it’s cold, when it’s hot, when it’s raining, or things are just going south. Your job is to keep the unit together. That’s why you’re there. The first place they will look when things go bad is you, and they will watch your reaction.
No. 6. Don’t be the feared leader. It doesn’t work. If Soldiers run the other way when you show up, that’s absolutely not cool. Most leaders who yell all the time, they’re in fact hiding their inability to effectively lead. Soldiers and leaders should be seeking you, looking for your guidance, asking you to be their mentors on their Army career track, not posting jokes about you on the ‘Dufflebag blog.’ That’s not cool. Funny, but it’s not cool.
No. 7. Don’t do anything – and I mean anything – negative over email. You have to call them. Go see them in person. Email’s just a tool. It’s not a substitute for leadership. It’s also permanent. You’ve all heard it. Once you hit ‘send,’ it’s official, and you can never bring it back. Automatically assume that whatever you write on email will be on the cover of the Army Times and all over Facebook by the end of the week. Trust me, I know this personally.
No. 8. It’s OK to be nervous. All of us are. This happens to be my favorite. It came from my mother. My mom always used to tell me that if you’re not nervous on the first day of school, then you’re either not telling the truth, you either don’t care, or you’re just plain stupid. [Being nervous] makes you try harder. That’s why makes you care more. Once that feeling is gone, once you feel like you have everything figured out, it’s time to go home, because the care stops. Don’t do this alone. You need a battle buddy. You need someone you can call, a mentor you can confide in. Don’t make the same mistakes someone else has made. Those are the dumb mistakes. Don’t do this along.
No. 9. If your own justification for being an expert in everything you do is your 28 years of military experience, the it’s time to fill out your 4187 [form requesting personnel action] and end you military experience. Not everything gets better with age, sergeants major. You have to work at it every day. Remember, you are the walking textbook. You are the information portal. Take the time to keep yourself relevant.
No. 10. Never forget that you’re just a Soldier. That’s all you are. No better than any other, but just one of them. You may get paid a little more, but when the time comes, your job is to treat them all fair, take care of them as if they were your own children, and expect no more from them of that of which you expect from yourself.
Great list, Gen. Satterfield and so thanks for reproducing it for us. I posted it on my refrig. My wife is like, ‘what is this?’ but I told her to just go the https://www.theleadermaker.com and follow Gen. Satterfield here. Nuff said!
“Never forget you’re just a soldier.” Couldn’t have said it better. When we reach higher levels of leadership, there is a tendency for us to put ourselves on a higher pedestal and think others are lower than us, less capable or less good. This is not a good way to be a leader and “former Sgt Major of the Army” has it right.
Gen. Satterfield would say BE HUMBLE. ?
Well said. Great list of advice. Note everyone how these themes are in agreement with what Gen. Satterfield has written consistently in his leadership blog.
Is a dedicated, official website of “Sergeant Major of the Army Michael A. Grinston”
https://www.army.mil/leaders/sma/
“When you think of ‘my squad,’ you think of something positive you do every day to take care of each other,” Grinston said. I recommend the article. Just read it. Kenny, once again, well done ferreting out the main points.
Great article General Satterfield because it shows that you too appreciate the advice of the enlisted man.
No 6, “Don’t be the feared leader.” says volumes. Too many leaders, especially new leaders, want to be “feared.” Not feared in the sense that they will hurt or kill you (ha ha) but feared in the way that people think you will fire them from their job or make life unusually difficult. Or that they will say something to another of our bosses (yes, we all have more than one). Fear is not the best motivator.
Just read the list from a former Sergeant Major of the Army. For those who do not know, this is the highest rank achievable in the U.S. Army. It represents an achievement that is one of those “one in a million” quiet literally. Only one man can be this person and has the ear from every senior officer as well.
Appreciate the fact you shed some light upon this rank. I just thought it was an E-9 (highest pay grade). Sgt Major of the Army is much more because he is over all the E-9s.
Great 10 comments from a senior enlisted Soldier.
Yes, these are what we can expect to hear from senior advisors and senior leaders. Keep them posted on your refrig. They make for a wonderful view into the world of leadership.
Right, ignore them at your peril.
Not just great but spectacular list.
As usual, spot on.